Dad Entry #90

Megan’s such a tall, thin, Nelson-bottomed little thing I’m surprised they make jeans that fit her. But they do. Her ‘skinny jeans’ fit perfectly. It’s a fad that struck at the right time for Megan. FYI, 'skinny jeans' are a newish designer cut that makes aspiring punk rockers look silly and my sweetheart look adorable. Also FYI, a ‘Nelson bottom’ is flat. Imagine a great white shark biting off both of your butt cheeks. You would be left with a Nelson bottom.

Michael had some impressive gas today. Withering. Potent. Fear Factor worthy. Would’ve made Bear Grylls dry heave. Michael was so proud he suggested we have a ‘fart tournament’. I knocked him down a peg when I acted unimpressed that he'd made his mother and sister gag. I told him he wasn't ready for a title shot. I told him he'd be seeded much lower than both of his papas in any kind of fart march madness. And even they couldn’t take the belt from Uncle Scott. "Keep practicing, young Jedi," I advised. But I asked him to practice when I’m not around; I conceded that much.

When I hold Megan now and she puts her arms around my neck and rests her head on my shoulders, her legs hang almost to my knees. That, friends, is sad. Very sad. She’ll start school in the fall! Public school. Kindergarten. She's growing up too fast.

Megan says she's good at the board game Candyland. She's okay with the notion you can be good at a game that's entirely chance; she has exactly the same chance of winning as her opponents. And yet she wins more than I do, so, technically, her superiority claim holds water. One of us is easily discouraged by, say, that little bastard the Gingerbread Man who sends you backwards. He drives me crazy!!! And one of us is more sensitive to repeated losses. So I steer the game, if needed, much like dealing from the bottom of the deck in Euchre, which I did unashamedly in high school when in need of a victory against drunk rivals. Megan doesn't suspect anything, although she offers subtle suggestions like, "Daddy, you want me to win, right?" Yes, Sweetie, I do. I really do. She doesn't win every time though. It can be a tough, competitive world out there depending on the games we join; we can't forget that lesson now can we :)

It occurred to me when I was in China and I couldn't read anything around me (everything’s in Chinese characters), that it's a taste of how Megan sees the world. I see people and objects but I can't read the signs. And there are signs and words everywhere in public places; on storefronts, menus, billboards, buildings, funny T-shirts, products for sale. But I suppose – since she hasn’t learned to read in any language yet – Meggie doesn’t exactly know what she’s missing.

Michael has scored in two consecutive basketball games. I'm excited, but not about the scoring as much as the fact he enjoys doing something I enjoy also… playing basketball. Ok, that’s BS, I’m excited about the scoring too. But I think it’s fair to say many competitors and performers gravitate to activities they’re good at. They’re more likely to stick with efforts or groups they make positive contributions to. So yes, I hope Michael keeps scoring and getting rebounds and playing tough D. I hope he's the next Dirk Nowitski.

To say Megan is only a little dramatic is like saying Muammar Gaddafi is only a little crazy. Tears are a heartbeat away. Fake tears. Or sweet-voiced suggestions that are somehow transparent, or come across as shtick, an act she hasn't perfected, like this weekend when she saw a Barbie she wanted at Target and said, "Daddy, I've always wanted this for weeks." Something about that statement sounded contrived to me. And confusing. Even though I've worked in Corporate America for 15 years, where I’ve certainly been desensitized to insincerity. And confusion. You can’t fool me, Megan.